Friday, February 26, 2021

I'll Try Not to Yuck Your Yum if You Try Not to Yuck Mine



"There are only two bad kinds of ice cream: pistachio and tutti frutti." It's one of the jokes I tell that no one thinks is particularly funny. The kids tend to take me seriously, "What's so bad about them?" And adults tend to snort in imitation of The Dude, "That's, like, just your opinion man."

It's true that those two flavors ruin ice cream for me, although if that's all there is, I'll still eat it, just not with the usual gusto. I've found many who agree with me about tutti frutti, but I often feel as if I'm all alone in my dislike of pistachio. "But that's the best flavor," they'll say or, "You don't know what you're talking about," all in the spirit of the joke, of course.

Ice cream isn't something to fight over. We've all known since we were quite young that everyone perceives flavors in a different way. What we find "yucky" others seem to find "yummy." And even as our beloved adults sometimes try to coax us with promises of bigger muscles or trick us by hiding, say, broccoli in an otherwise delicious marinara sauce, the palate doesn't want what the palate doesn't want. The same goes for all of our senses, which accounts, at least in part, for different tastes in music, color, scent, and the kind of fabric we like against our skin.

Everyone interacts with the world through our senses. We are born into a hubbub of sensation, then gradually begin to sort them out. In our culture we've settled on five senses, but people who study these things count up to 33 and, as we know, even among the commonly accepted five there is a great deal of crossover, say, between smell and taste. Some theorize that we are just one big bio-machine that exists for the purpose of processing the universe into a form our consciousness can comprehend, each of us put together differently from the start, then shaped by events and environment, into a unique interpreter of reality.

My joke entertains me because I know that children will query and adults will object. I'm setting myself up to be told I'm "wrong," even as I know I'm as right as anyone about the flavors of ice cream. When I tell my stupid joke amongst children it almost inevitably turns into a comparative conversation about our senses, with children offering up their "yucks" and "yums," agreeing and disagreeing. It's a way to talk about our similarities and differences. 

There have, however, over the years been a few instances in which the conversation turned angry. For example, one boy grew livid at another who insisted that he liked the taste of garlic on his bagel. "You don't like garlic!" he shouted. Had the emotion not been so real, I would have laughed. But it made me think about how often our inability to accept the perceptions of others, without judgement, stands at the heart of our bigotries.

Marshall McLuhan of "The medium is the message" fame asserts that the "ratio" among human senses changes depending upon the medium (or environment or tool) through which we are experiencing the world. We've all know of people, like Helen Keller, for whom the absence of one sense, leads to the enhancement of others. That would be an example of this sort of change in ratio. McLuhan, in great detail, writes about how the introduction of the phonetic alphabet turned our oral and aural sense into a visual one. Up to the adoption of the written word, we lived in a space in which our sense of hearing played a much more prominent part in our experience, something that we modern humans, steeped as we are in the visual realm of literacy, can no longer fathom. As the ratio of senses among Europeans increasingly shifted toward the visual and away from the aural over the course of centuries, we began to label those who perceived the world in preliterate ways (e.g., through the ear) as primitive or barbarian. Even the word "preliterate" contains the connotation of inferiority.

But just as there is no objective "better" or "worse" when it comes to ice cream flavors, there is no better or worse when it comes to the shape of our senses. As much as humanity gained from severing spoken words from the sounds they make with the adoption of the phonetic alphabet, we lost just as much in the process. Pre-literate humans had much better memories than modern man, for instance. Even young children were capable of quickly and easily committing epics and opuses to memory in ways that would be impossible for most of us. There is no better or worse, only different. Humans adapt to the environment or medium in which they find themselves. McLuhan's big contribution to the ongoing dialog of the world is that he sees that western culture is in the midst of another major change in sensory ratios that began with the advent of electronic media. We are now re-entering, in his view, a new era, shaped by new media, in which our sensory ratios are once more shifting toward those known by our ancestors and those few remaining people who still live as their ancestors did.

I'm not entirely sure I buy the theory, but there is no doubt that our children are growing up in a changing environment that is reshaping their senses. We often see it in the news media as "rewiring their brains," a framing that most of us read with alarm. As we wring our hands, our children, as children always do, are simply adapting and adopting. And just as we, as a culture that has spread itself in colonizing ways around the globe, came to view non-illiterate cultures as inferior, we are actively labeling ourselves as superior to whatever it is that's coming next as well. Meanwhile our children become digital natives with our without us.

Admittedly, there is a lot of conjecture in what I've written here. The science of the senses, the history of literacy, and the legacy of McLuhan's ideas can all be argued from the other side. What is not in doubt, however, is that our senses, no matter how finely honed, cannot begin to tell us the whole truth. To get at that requires bringing all of our perceptions together in cacophonous dialog in the hope that our collective consciousness can bring us closer. It's worth considering.

In the meantime, I'll try not to yuck your yum if you try not to yuck mine.

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Thursday, February 25, 2021

The Concept of "Learning Loss" is Complete BS


Just scanning the first page of my search engine's results for "learning loss" without clicking a single link I see that children have "suffered" learning loss during the pandemic, that the learning loss is "grim," that it is "unprecedented," and that schools are "racing" and "struggling" to correct it. It will, apparently, "take years to overcome" the damage that's been done to our poor children who we are counting on to fill the jobs of tomorrow.

Oh boy, we're on high seas alright. Just when we think we're seeing a light at the end of the pandemic storm, we see there are still choppy waters and dark clouds ahead, and this time it's all going to come crashing down on our children. The poor children. Think of the children!

But breathe easy. Fortunately, there are heroes here to save the day: for-profit corporations who just happen to sell exactly the lifesavers we need in the form of curricula, text books, and, most importantly, standardized tests. Of course, it will apparently mean tossing a few less important things overboard. Recess must, of course, be reduced. School hours can be extended. Summer break can be shortened or perhaps eliminated entirely. And perhaps we can put those extras like music, physical education, and art on hold for a few years. If these measures seem harsh, please consider the poor, wee, suffering children whose brains are being, as we speak, drained of learning; who have been traumatized by what is clearly a brain damaging event. But if we act fast, with the kind of tough love only institutions can administer, and with, most importantly, rolls of freshly minted bills (that are definitely not needed to make up for the financial losses these self-proclaimed "education" corporations experienced during this dark time when children were not being rigorously drilled-and-killed), these benevolent heroes can save our children from being hopelessly lost at sea for the rest of their lives . . .

This is what they are selling and it should sicken all of us. The concept of "learning loss" is complete BS. It's been with us forever, of course, this noxious idea that if we don't keep children's noses to the grindstone year-round they fall into some sort of swoon of blithering ignorance, but now it's being weaponized and aimed directly at our children. "Learning loss" is not a real thing. It's an invention of the standardized testing crowd. If it's so fragile that a few months, or even a year, will cause it to somehow disappear, it was never learned in the first place. It was, at best, a bit of trivia that a child managed to store away in their short term memory long enough to fill in the right dot on a test. I have no doubt that kids have sloughed off tons of this sort of trivia during the past year, but that isn't evidence of learning loss: it's evidence that what we've been doing to children at the behest of these testing companies isn't learning at all. Or rather it's learning in the only thing that matters to their bottomline, which is proficiency in taking tests, of cramming, of scoring points. It is a useful, self-perpetuating set of skills just so long as testing remains the center of their educational experience. It is not useful for anything they will ever face in the world beyond the classroom.

Clearly, the actual content doesn't matter, and that's usually the way children feel about it as well. Once they've used it for it's only conceivable purpose, filling in a bubble with a number two pencil, they are free to dump it to make space for the next set of test answers they must retain long enough to fill in the correct bubbles. This is not learning in the sense that professional educators think of it, which is why it's no loss at all.

Professional educators know that real learning cannot be lost except in the case of some sort of brain damage. Professional educators know that real learning continues unabated, even during a pandemic. Professional educators know that the children who return to their classrooms will have been transformed by their experiences, profoundly, and not all for the bad. Professional educators know that "falling behind" is a concept invented by testing companies whose only measure for "behind" is the very tests they create, a convenient, cynical self-perpetuating cycle that has nothing at all to do with learning or education or life itself. Professional educators know that one must apply knowledge before it is learned and our children have spent the past year applying their knowledge to living through a pandemic. That's where the learning has happened.

The real heroes are the children who stayed home, who sat in front of computer screens, who continue to wear masks and keep their distance even when every fiber of their being is telling them to hug and wrestle and hold hands. The real heroes are the educators who ditched the curricula and tests, and joined the children on their learning journey, supporting them as they learned lessons that can never be lost. 

It's now beyond sickening to watch our elected representatives (of both parties) fall all over themselves to beat the "learning loss" drum, eager to once more sic the profit-mongers on our children. 

Have some of our children, maybe even most of our children, suffered during the pandemic? Of course, but not because of this "learning loss" BS. Have things been grim? Indeed, but not because the kids had a break from the test score coal mines. Has there been suffering and struggling? My lord, yes, but not the kind that is manufactured in institutions that are designed to run the kids through the kind of assembly line that characterizes most of what these cruel profiteers pass off as curriculum.

It's tempting to wrap up this rant with some heartfelt verbiage about how the children need us to listen, to support, and to help them process the real world events that have changed everything, at least for a time. All of this is true, and we will do it, but right now, as I contemplate the abject meanness of the "learning loss" crowd, I don't want to simply become like them by thinking we can or should prescribe anything to these kids. Let's just admit that none of us know what's next. Let's just admit that the children, overall, may well be weathering this better than most adults, and that they have learned things that we have not. We find ourselves, after a terrible storm, in sight of land, all of us together. We don't know what we will find there. All we know is that we will disembark together and from there we can begin to build something new from what we have actually been learning about ourselves and our world. But first we have to throw the "learning loss" crowd overboard.

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Wednesday, February 24, 2021

Young Children Don't Need Adults to Make Their Play Meaningful


I was watching a boy named Henry carry a yellow traffic pylon across the playground. He carefully placed it on the ground, not on it's base, but on it's side, taking care to get it "just so," before climbing atop an old packing crate. He stood poised atop the crate for a moment then launched himself, coming down on the pylon. Crack! I heard the sound of the pylon breaking from across the yard.

Stupidly, I asked him, "Henry, why did you do that?"

Without missing a beat he replied, "I wanted to see if I could break it." Duh.


We had a brief conversation about property after that, although in hindsight I think that "property" has a somewhat different meaning when we spend our time on a junkyard playground like ours, but I keep this episode in mind whenever people begin to talk about "play with a purpose," a mantra for those who have accepted the importance of play while clinging to the hubristic notion that children need adults to "make" it educational. Here was a boy with a question, one of his own devising, and therefore one in which he had a genuine interest. He was motivated by his curiosity, Can I break this? and set up an experiment in which he discovered his answer.

The standard definitions of play frame it as "for enjoyment" or "recreation," which can clearly both be aspects of play, but those of us who spend our lives observing children going about the business of actually playing know that there is always a question behind what they do, even if it's not one that can be stated as clearly as Henry's. The purpose of the player isn't always evident to the observer, but there is always, beneath the enjoyment or recreation, an inquiry of some sort at work, one that might not always lead to a definitive answer as Henry's experiment did, but is an exploration of oneself, the other people, and both the physical and psychological environment in which the child finds himself. Play is how our instinct to educate ourselves manifests.


When it comes to preschool education, play is enough: it contains within it all the important questions and answers. We don't need adults commanding, coaxing, coaching, or cajoling the children in order for it to be purposeful. When I hear people use the phrase "play with a purpose" (or something similar) I cringe because no matter how well intended, I know that these are people who don't trust the children's natural instincts and so feel compelled, however gently, to turn their self-directed learning into yet another adult-directed activity that may or may not lead children to answers that are important to them.

Not long ago, I watched a teacher attempt to compel a group of five-year-olds through a type of relay race she had designed to help the children "deepen" their understanding of the autumn leaves they had collected, matching like-with-like and so on. The teacher's enthusiasm and the children's curiosity about this "game" she was describing was enough to keep them interested for a few minutes as they waited in queues for their turn to race from one end of the room to the other, but it wasn't long before there were children exploring under tables, chatting with friends, and, in the case of one boy, simply moping against the wall. The teacher started by trying to cheerfully coax them all back into the game, but it didn't take. She tried to ignore the rebellions to focus on the children who were still engaged in her play-with-a-purpose game, although it seemed to me that most of them were doing it by way of pleasing their teacher more than because the game held their interest. I sympathized with the teacher as I watched her jaw twitch because I have experienced similar episodes in my own teaching past, but the bottom line is that she had managed to turn their natural interest in things like collecting fall leaves and running into a chore from which none of them were learning much other than perhaps a lesson in obedience and disobedience.


Children's play is always purposeful even if we can't tell what that purpose is and it's always educational even if we don't know what they are learning. The moment the adult imposes her own agenda, play comes to an end no matter how playful their top-down agenda tries to be. Children will always lose interest because the questions are not their own and without interest "learning" becomes a chore for everyone.

Play is a pure good, like love or happiness, and, like love or happiness, it tends to disappear when we overthink it.

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Tuesday, February 23, 2021

If the World Disappears When I Close My Eyes



Two-year-old Jonathan put a blanket over his head.

"Where did Jonathan go?" His parents pretended to look for him. "Where is he?"

Jonathan giggled under his blanket. He had played this game before. 

A couple months earlier, he had played the game the other way. He had "discovered" that when he closed his eyes, the world disappeared. It had frightened him at first. He would blink quickly, not wanting, I reckon, to risk losing the world forever, but as he became more confident that the world would return, he took to closing his eyes for minutes at a time. "Everything is gone," he would say, at first with awe, but then matter-of-factually. This hiding under a blanket was a new game for him, an extension of the old one: if the world disappears when I close my eyes, maybe I can disappear as well.

As adults we find his mistaken understanding to be cute, one that reveals misunderstandings about the nature of perception, but at the same time shows us that he's working to build a theory of mind: he was considering the world from our perspective, getting it wrong, but a valiant effort nonetheless . . . 

But maybe it's we adults who are wrong. There is an equal chance that we are.


In his book The Case Against Reality, cognitive scientist David Hoffman tells us that according to the mathematical modeling he's done, there is a zero percent chance that what we perceive through our senses is really what's there. Indeed, his theory is that what we experience as reality is merely a kind of data construct that we ourselves create. What we see, hear, feel, taste, and touch are all things our consciousness creates in order to make sense of the universe so that, in accordance with the Theory of Evolution, we increase our chances of survival. 

The metaphor he uses are icons on our computer screen. Say there is a blue square there that represents an email you've written. We know that the email really isn't actually a blue square. The icon is just an interface that represents that email. The trashcan icon we might drag it into is likewise not an actual trashcan. The reality behind our email icon and that trashcan is a process of circuitry and software that most of us don't understand, nor do we need to in order to interact with our email through this icon interface. Hoffman's theory, which he calls Conscious Realism, asserts that our brain makes icons of everything we perceive and that the "real" universe remains hidden to us like what is really happening when we write an email. As he says, "Our perceptions must be taken seriously, but not literally."

Another metaphor he likes to use is to imagine yourself playing a virtual reality game. You're wearing a headset and as you turn your head, the program renders what appear to be objects in the direction you are looking. When you look in another direction, it deletes those representations of objects and creates other representations to simulate a changed perspective. This, he proposes, is similar to what happens when we look around in the real world. If we are not perceiving an object with at least one of our senses, it simply doesn't exist until we once more are in a position to perceive it.


So maybe, if this outlandish theory is correct, Jonathan was right to conclude that the visual part of his world disappeared when he closed his eyes. Perhaps his insight was not a developmental stage at all, but rather a glimpse into the reality behind our perceptions that is no longer available to us adults. 

The world of literature is full of examples of children being able to perceive things adults cannot: like Peter Pan, The Chronicle of Narnia, or Alice in Wonderland. In these books, it's the adults, in their calcification, who don't see the things that children can. 

Those of us who spend our days with young children know that they often perceive the world more accurately than we do. For instance, they are creatures of the moment, not fretting about the past or future, a perspective that jibes with what both physicists and philosophers tell us about the world. The present is all we ever have, and young child live as if this is true, playing according to their desires, while we fill the present with mundane chores in anticipation of a future that will never come. 

They know that the solution to homelessness is to give people homes. 

They are born keenly aware that the people in their lives, their parents and family, are more important than anything else.

They don't hide their emotions behind false smiles or stuff them until they take the shape of monsters. Children know to let their feelings out, to feel them, and to get on with their life of doing.

We say that children grow out of these phases as they become more mature, but as I consider Jonathan under his blanket, I wonder if we, as a society, really just do a number on them. We've become invested in persuading them, and, in turn, ourselves, that the storybooks are fantasy, that the present is merely a fulcrum between feelings of guilt about the past and worry about the future, that the problem of homelessness is soooo complicated, that our family and friends can wait, and that our emotions make us weak or rude or ugly.

I doubt there are any preschool educators who haven't at least considered how different our world would be if only we could take children seriously, especially the very young ones, who have not yet been taught the dubious lesson that the world doesn't disappear when they close their eyes. 

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Monday, February 22, 2021

How We Become Blind to the Chicken

Karntakuringu Jakurrpa


In 1961, Professor John Wilson of the African Institute of London University published a paper in which he tells of an experience he had while trying to use film to teach an audience. He was working with a sanitary inspector who had the specific goal of educating people about the importance of getting rid of standing water in order to combat mosquito born illnesses like malaria. They chose film as their medium because the audience was illiterate. They likewise knew that the audience wasn't familiar with film, so they kept things deliberate and simple. There was only one character, the sanitary inspector himself, talking to the camera, giving careful demonstrations. They screened it to an audience of 30 or so who were then asked what they had seen. "The chicken," they answered.

There hadn't been a chicken in the film, but every member of the audience talked about seeing the chicken. Upon further questioning, they said they had also seen the sanitary inspector, but he hadn't made nearly the impression as this non-existent chicken. It was only when the filmmakers went back and studied their film frame-by-frame did they finally see that, indeed, a chicken, startled by something, had briefly flown across the corner of the screen. It had appeared for less than a second in a five minute film. Until this audience had seen it, the makers of the film had been literally blind to the chicken.

After consulting with an artist and an eye-specialist, they learned that people who are familiar with film, don't actually focus on the screen itself, but rather at a point just in front of the screen in order to take in the whole picture. This audience, however, had instead focused on the screen itself, the way we might do on a printed page, not seeing the big picture, but scanning the images segment by segment in all their details, one at a time, never making a story of it, while seeing the chicken as clear as day. 

There are few people in the world today who are film illiterate, but studies done on people who are find that there is a whole host of incomprehensible things found in film that we take for granted. Moving pictures are not, as we suppose, representations of reality, but rather a collection of conventions that we've learned to decode. Panoramic sweeps, for instance, are confusing to film illiterate audiences: it seems to them that the whole world is moving. When a character steps out of the frame it appears as if they have inexplicably disappeared. They cannot accept the convention of a person sitting quietly who is then brought into a close-up. It appears to them that the person has grown bizarrely larger. In other words, what we perceive as an accurate representation of reality is really just a collection of conventions and symbols that we've learned to interpret, but in the process of becoming film literate, we make ourselves blind to the chickens. 

I find myself wondering if this isn't the consequence of all learning. We are born scanning our world which is a miasma of sensory input. We're not, at first, even able to distinguish between our senses. In their book The World of the Newborn, Daphne and Charles Maurer write about newborns:

"His world smells to him much as our world smells to us, but he does not perceive odors (as we do) . . . His world is a melee of pungent aromas -- and pungent sounds, and bitter-smelling sounds, and sweet-smelling sights, and sour-smelling pressures against the skin. If we could visit the newborn's world, we would think ourselves inside a hallucinogenic perfumery."

There is no line between the senses. They are all one. The very notion that we have five distinct senses instead of the single all-encompassing one of infancy is itself a product of our having learned a set of conventions and symbols that may be useful, but in fact removes us from the actual reality that we are born into. So we leave behind the aromas of sight and sound, unlearning this way of perceiving the world, in favor of what our social world teaches us.

It is bigotry to believe that our various literacies -- in reading or film watching or dividing up our senses -- represent "progress" or superiority. The people who see chickens that we cannot see are not ahead of us or behind, they are simply attending to different conventions. Babies who can taste what they see and hear what they feel only lose this ability because we have created a world in which they must learn to see with their eyes and taste with their tongue.

As adults who work with young children, we are so steeped in our various literacies that we mistake them for reality. Instead of feeling that we must "teach" children to "read" the world as we do, perhaps we should make the effort to enter into their "illiterate" world, which is, in many ways, much closer to reality than the conventions and symbols we rely upon. Of course, we may never fully understand, we may never again be able to see the chicken or enter into the hallucinogenic perfumery, but by "listening," as Eleanor Duckworth advises, with our "whole selves," we find that children are a window into ways of perceiving and being that we've forgotten. 

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Friday, February 19, 2021

In the End the Goal is Not Literacy, It's Understanding


I write every day, publishing here and in other forums like Medium and Edutopia, not to mention my two books. Yesterday, I wrote a post that might be considered a bit dismissive of writing, but please don't let that make you think that I don't value the written word. I'm a product of it, as are you, but it has its limitations, severe ones, in that one can never really say what one wants to say, only come as close as possible.

Like everyone who writes, which is most of us at one time or another, I sometimes write to convey information, persuade, entertain, or preserve something, but the primary reason I strive to put things into words is so that I can know what I think. This, of course, is the opposite of how we "teach" children to write. They are taught to start with a thesis, build their case, then end with a pre-determined conclusion. In other words, they are to think before they write, which, as the old woman quoted by E.M. Forester in his book Aspects of the Novel said, "Good gracious! What rubbish! How can I tell what I think till I see what I say?"

For me, the process of writing is, in many ways, my process of thinking and that is what usually happens here on this blog. Sure, I try to go back and tidy things up a bit to make it presentable before hitting the "Publish" button, and I can't tell you how grateful I am that people, millions of them, have found value in reading what I leave here and there, but mainly I write to understand. This too, is the opposite of how one is taught to write. One is supposed to imagine an audience and write to that audience, but that, I think, is only true when writing to inform, persuade, entertain or preserve.

Writing is certainly not the only way to arrive at understanding. An artist friend says she needs to work with "matter" to shape her thoughts, and, in turn, "I need thoughts to give a name and a sense of what happens to matter." The most famous teacher of all, Socrates, never wrote anything. He used his Socratic Method of conversation and questioning to drill down to understanding. In fact, he distrusted the written word:

“The discovery of the alphabet will create forgetfulness in the learners’ souls, because they will not use their memories; they will trust to the external written characters and not remember of themselves . . . You give your disciples not truth but only the semblance of truth; they will be heroes of many things, and will have learned nothing; they will appear to be omniscient and will generally know nothing.” 

In fact, it's this passage that prompts me to write today (and yesterday for that matter). Oh sure, as well-regarded as Socrates is, he is only known today because his student Plato wrote his words. And like with many of the dead, white males of the Western Canon, we needn't take his words as transcribed by others at face value. He could have been wrong. Perhaps he, like many of us, was a mere Luddite, digging in his heels against a new and powerful technology, but his example of striving to understand even if it upsets our cherished ideals, I think, remains a good one. That's why I wrote yesterday. I value the written word, but I've had a number of conversations lately with people from indigenous backgrounds who have caused me to re-consider the written word altogether, or to at least place it on a lower pedestal alongside others of equal height.

Typically, we think of the role of educators as one of informing, persuading, entertaining (at least a little), and preserving (again, at least a little), but our real function is the two-way street of understanding. That is the business of education: to facilitate understanding. Writing is not an option for most preschoolers. For them, the pursuit of understanding comes through an ongoing spiral of play and the spoken word. One might even say that their's is a much more direct way to arrive at understanding, so much so that I sometimes find myself wishing I wasn't literate at all. 

There are times when I'm frustrated by the limitations of words. They get in my way and never quite say what I want them to say. The most irritating example is the use of jargon and buzz words, which are invented as shortcuts for people in the same profession or clique, but that quickly evolve into walls that keep the uninitiated out. When I'm trying to understand I seek to shed all jargon and use the simplest word possible. Instead of writing about my "head space" I'll write "mood." Instead of writing "meta," I'll use "big picture." The more commonplace the words, the easier it is for me to start to approach understanding. 

Children are more like my artist friend, however, or Socrates. Matter and dialog are real things in the real world. Writing is a step removed. I tell myself that the words I publish here are my tiny contribution to the great and ongoing dialog of humanity, but how can they serve that purpose when they are so distant from the real things taking place, like transforming matter or a conversation or a song or dance or digging a hole to China?

Reading and writing, what we call literacy, is a double-edged sword and we shouldn't allow ourselves to fall prey to placing literacy on a pedestal. As useful as it is, there are so many more kinds of literacy in the world, so many more grammars, so many more and beautiful ways to understand. In fact, most of these types of literacy are available to the young children in our lives right now, at this very moment. Alphabetic literacy can and should wait until they are seven or eight or nine or ten years old. As long as we provide the opportunities for them to explore, create and converse, they will teach themselves to be literate in the real world, multi-literate, profoundly literate.

I write to understand, but there are as many paths to understanding as there are people. Let's each find our own, walk together when our ways run parallel, and walk alone when our ways diverge, emerging as humans who understand, but in our own unique ways, which is the glory of humanity. In the end the goal is not literacy, it's understanding.

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Thursday, February 18, 2021

A "Big, Big Poop" and Speaking the Names of the Gods


Preschoolers tell stories long before they read or write them. I often grab a stack of paper and a pen and serve as a transcriber of their words, striving, often through cramping fingers, to keep up and honor, not my interpretation of their intent, but the exact words they evoke.

She said: 

"Once upon a time there was a
big monster who pooped
everywhere. And he was
called POOP MONSTER!
But he just kept on
pooping. Poop, poop, poop
Poop, poop, poop, poop
Poop, poop, poop, poop.
Poop.
Poop.
Poop." 

And that is exactly what I wrote. But, of course, the act of converting her spoken words into the phonetic alphabet is not an exact translation. She was performing this story orally, evoking words, and particularly one word, more in the manner of an incantation than literature.

"Poop," she said, over and over. She knew from experience that the destiny of this story was to be read in front of her classmates. Her conspiratorial grin told me that she knew that word, the sounds she was repeatedly forming, would evoke peals of laughter from the other children, like magic. And she likewise knew that saying it frequently and louder (which I tried to indicate here by using all capital letters) would do nothing but increase her power to bring laughter into the world.



In his book Götternamen (The Names of Gods), German scholar Hermann Usener introduced the concept of "momentary deity," which is how he referred to those images which are born from the need or the specific feeling of a critical moment. In pre-literate societies (meaning those in which the phonetic alphabet is unknown, like a preschool classroom) words themselves serve as deities, summoned to serve a purpose in the world. These momentary gods are more than mere words, but active forces because they exist as sound in the world, real things that cause real impact, as opposed to written words which are merely visual representations of things that exist rather than the things themselves.


"This is a big, big poop from that
blue monster! And then it just kept on pooping!
Poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop, poop . . .
 
The words "This" and "that" refer to the picture she had drawn. They are housekeeping deities, but the word "poop," repeated and amplified by the staccato, "big, big" is an evocation of hilarity and she knew it. That, not linear narrative, was clearly her point, a point that would be fully understood in any society that has not been fully worked over by the phonetic alphabet (of which there are very few these days). Of course, in evoking this momentary deity, she also knew that she risked creating disgust and scorn in at least some adults, but that, as a girl prone to cheekiness, was likely also part of what she intended to summon with her magical words.

"This is a really big, big, buh-buh big poop! 

Her incantation complete, she said, "The end," bringing it to a close just as she had begun her story with the convention of "Once upon a time . . ." her only two nods to the phonetic alphabet. My transcription into letters on a page makes it look like she stammered, when in fact, what she was really doing was summoning the greatest gods she could muster: the "big, big, buh-buh big" ones. (Interestingly, when we attempt to translate pictographic writing like Egyptian hieroglyphs or Chinese pictograms into phonetic alphabet writing, it often comes off as stuttering.)

This all would have been easily understood, intuitively, by our hunter-gatherer ancestors because they, like preschoolers, had not yet been transformed by phonetic alphabet literacy. Indeed, in young children, as in the study of indigenous cultures, we find a non-linear understanding of the universe that jibes best with most of human history. In a time in which education policymakers are doubling down on "literacy" as we know it, there are many, like Marshall McLuhan, who believe that the advent of our global connectedness through electronic technology, has made us a "global village" and that the era of the phonetic alphabet is rapidly (in an historic sense) on the wane. The children we teach are already becoming literate in the new technologies in ways beyond the abstraction of the phonetic alphabet: literate in ways that would have been familiar to our ancestors. And their children and grandchildren may well come to view our current narrow, linear view of literacy as outmoded technology.




I'm reminded of the time I was asked to tell stories to a group of non-English speaking preschoolers. Despite not understanding the specific meaning of the words I was using, they laughed when English-speaking children would typically laugh. They raised their eyebrows at the moments when English-speakers typically would show surprise. Their shouts, sighs, interjections, and exclamations came at the same moments as those of their English speaking peers. The fact that they wanted me to repeat the story shocked me: that they then were able to more or less repeat the story to me in their own language seemed impossible. Certainly, they understood some English, but their teacher assured me they didn't. I know now what happened. They weren't responding to a written story, but rather an oral one. I had without knowing it brought forth momentary deities that spoke directly, from the real world, to their pre-literate minds. 

Even the very concept of "progress" that makes us think that we are so much more "advanced" than our ancestors, comes from our use of the technology of the phonetic alphabet, which broke the magic of oral language into meaningless sounds, removing it from direct experience, putting it on a page, strung together in a line from beginning to end, divorced from their real impact on the world.

It's not clear that we are more advanced than prior generations. The only thing we do know is that we are different. Our youngest children, however, are a lens into what we were before the ancient Greeks adopted the Phoenician alphabet and were for the first time able to separate thought and action. They may also give us a view into the future of our species as physicists and philosophers have come around to the recognition that it is only our written word, not the universe itself, that is linear. 




As educators, our role is to seek first to understand the children in our lives, as they are right now. And right now they are a pre-literate society. What they have to teach us about our past, present and future is profound, if only we would forget about the imperatives of progress (or "school readiness" in our common  parlance) and strive to appreciate who they are rather than who we want them to be. To do that, we must take their poop monsters seriously, even if they, thankfully, are not to be taken literally.

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Wednesday, February 17, 2021

Without Emotions Rational Thought is Impossible


There is more reason in your body than in your best wisdom. ~Friedrich Nietzsche  


The stereotypical argument used to exclude women from business, science, politics, the military, or indeed just about any category of public life is that they are "too emotional." Emotions, the theory goes, renders them incapable of making rational decisions. Most of us, of course, instinctively recognize this as a baseless patriarchal assertion, one that is disproven every day as we find women succeeding in every area of society.

Chihuly glass

As a preschool teacher, I've learned that emotions have no gender. Every child cries. Every child has tantrums. Every child experiences fear, frustration, envy, joy, disappointment, and melancholy, and gender has nothing to do with how and how often. As children grow older, however, society tends to be more accepting of girls' expressions of a fuller range of emotions, but there is still a lot of pressure to hide bad feelings behind a smile. Boys quickly learn to hide their "negative" feelings behind stoicism and anger, the only public emotion "allowed" to them. A boy who cries or is afraid is often mocked. A boy who smiles too much is often considered flighty or unserious. This doesn't mean, however, that boys and men don't feel the same emotions as girls and women, only that we are not as free to express them.


We are all emotional, but that begs the question: is it possible to be too emotional? I suppose the answer is yes, to the degree that our emotions become incapacitating or destructive. We all have those moments when we flip our lids, curl up in a ball of anxiety, or trudge through days as if under a dark cloud. When it becomes chronic we call it mental illness. So yes, I suppose it is possible to be too emotional, but it is equally possible, and perhaps even common, to not be emotional enough. It's only through our emotions, not our intellects, that we fully connect with one another, understand, empathize, and communicate. Without emotion, we are but automatons, doomed to stand outside of humanity either as outcast or villain. We all have our times when we become emotionally exhausted, when we detach for a time. When our emotional detachment becomes chronic we call it sociopathy.


It's tempting to conclude that it's all about finding a balance, but there's no fulcrum here upon which to rest an easy center. Our emotions are too important for that. They are to be felt fully and honestly, not balanced out with cool rationalism. Indeed, rationality cannot exist without emotion.


For much of the 20th century scientists were convinced that emotions played no role, and were perhaps even an impediment to rational thought, which provided much of the "scientific" underpinning for denying women (and children for that matter) rights and opportunities. But more recent research has found that emotions play a critical role in our ability to make decisions. Rather than clouding our judgement, the neural systems that underlie emotions are essential to high-level cognition, which is to say decision-making. One of the pioneers in this research is an American-Portuguese neuroscientist named Antonio Damasio. Much of his work has been done on patients whose brains have been injured and who, as a result, are missing the connection between their sensory input and emotions. The rapid beating of their heart at the prospect of crossing a narrow bridge, for instance, doesn't provoke fear. Based on traditional views, one would conclude that this fearless person would be more clear-headed and, therefore, be more inclined to making rational decisions. But Damasio has found the opposite to be true: his emotionless patients proved incapable of making reasonable decisions. This is a conclusion that has now been replicated numerous times by other scientists.


We need our emotions in order to make sound judgements and our greater doubt should be saved for those who do not credit their emotions because they are more likely, according to science, to be the irrational ones. But like much of what scientists are "learning" about humans, this is actually ancient knowledge, long understood by artists and mystics alike. As Lao Tzu wrote in the 6th century BC, "Let your feelings flourish and get on with you life of doing." That is, and always will be, the path of wisdom.

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