Friday, January 03, 2025

Following a Treasure Map

One of the children, probably inspired by a movie, used a stick to draw a "treasure map" in the sand pit. Other children gathered around as he told the story of what "treasure" is, what a "map" is, and the adventure upon which they were going to embark.

The treasure, he explained, was a chest full of gold and jewels. Some of the kids wanted to know what a chest was. Others wondered, knowing it was all pretend, why the treasure couldn't be ice cream or Pretty Ponies. The concept of the map was difficult. It wasn't even clear to me that the boy drawing the map really understood what he was trying to describe. Although he assured the crew that treasure was buried (at least one child needed that word defined as well) somewhere on the playground, the map included a coconut tree and giant boulders, features that I expect were drawn from the movie landscape. 

"Let's pick some coconuts when we get there," enthused one pirate. "Pirate," in this case, had been defined as "guys who go around and find treasure."

These kinds of scenarios are the gold standard of play-based learning. I'm sure there are many preschool educators who would have felt compelled, in the name of learning, to step in with corrections and clarifications, or worse. In similar play scenarios, I've watched well-meaning adults engage in what they think of as "scaffolding," by offering impromptu lessons about, say, maps or pirate lore or ship rigging, in the hopes of "deepening" or "extending" the learning. The problem is that even if the kids are willingly diverted, even if the educator is engaging, we've now had the children's play taken over by an adult. In a moment, we seen the children turn away from one another, away from their own questions, explorations, speculations, and ad hoc conclusions based on dialog and agreement. They are now relying on the adult for questions and answers, rather than continuing to engage in the highest pursuit of human intellectual endeavor.

There are those who would argue that this game is, at best, a waste of time, that these children playing their fantastical games of imagination, getting the facts wrong, playing with wrong ideas, and even spreading them amongst themselves, may be learning, but that it's false knowledge that will somehow have to be undone. But that, I think, is a misunderstanding of what play is all about, and, for that matter, what learning is all about.

"When we talk about the big bang or the fabric of space time, what we are doing is not a continuation of the free and fantastic stories that humans have told nightly around campfires for hundreds of thousands of years," writes physicist Carlo Rovelli in his book Seven Brief Lessons on Physics. "It is the continuation of something else: of the gaze of those same men in the first light of day looking at tracks left by antelope in the dust of the savannah — scrutinizing and deducting from the details of reality in order to pursue something that we can’t see directly but can follow the traces of. In the awareness that we can always be wrong, and therefore ready at any moment to change direction if a new track appears; but knowing also that if we are good enough we will get it right and will find what we are seeking. This is the nature of science."

The birth of the universe and the nature of space and time are every bit as much mysteries to physicists as treasure maps and pirates are to these preschoolers. What drives scientists is the same thing that drives playing children: they are motivated by the mystery, by their own questions, and by the freedom to seek answers. Too often, educators, in our commitment to facts and truth and teaching, take over the learning by providing shortcuts to answers, stripping away the mystery that has driven humans since the beginning of time. We forget that getting it wrong is every bit as important to this process as being right.

The job in life is not to know stuff, but rather to figure stuff out so that we will then know. And we get there through play.

The pirates decided that one of the playground cedars was, for their purposes, a coconut tree. A stack of shipping pallets were the boulders. And off they went on their treasure hunt, following mysterious tracks like their ancestors did.

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Thursday, January 02, 2025

If Only We Could Remember That Living is Enough



We take memory for granted. 

Not our specific memories, of course. Most of us have memories we cherish as well as those we try to forget. Many of us spent these most recent holidays trying to re-create fond memories. Memoirs are a popular literary genre. And we think we know that memory is the foundation upon which learning is built. 

What we take for granted is that we have memories in the first place.

Even babies are born with memories of the womb, of the muffled sound of our mothers' voice, of the warmth, of the connection to another living being. And it could be that it is those memories that cause babies to seek similar connection in the bright, chaotic "outside world." The memory of mommy's voice causes us to turn toward it. The memory of warmth causes us to snuggle in. The memory of connection drives us to suckle. No one knows, of course, but it makes a certain kind of sense from an evolutionary point of view.

I've met a few people who claim they have vestigial in utero memories, but most of us retain very little from before we're four or five-years-old. Last week, I recalled an event from our adult daughter's preschool years while on our holiday visit to New York. She replied, "I don't know if I remember that or if you've just told the story so many times that I think I remember it." Cognitive psychologists tell us that this is the case for most of our "memories" from those years: they've been kept alive by others, by photographs, by videos. 

I find it impossible to conceive of life without memories. How would I know how to brush my teeth if not for the memories of having done it before? I once experienced an unsettling bout of partial amnesia. It lasted a couple hours during which I couldn't recall anyone in my life other than my immediate family. It was frightening, but I could still brush my teeth, still prepare food, still operate my electronic devices (although, one of the freakiest parts was realizing that I didn't recognize any of the my so-called "friends" on Facebook). Most of my memory was still there and I was easily able to cobble together a functioning life from the memory that remained. 

My mother-in-law recently died after a decade of ever-worsening dementia. By the end, not only had she forgotten people, but even, at times, how to do such basic things as eating. She would sit down at the table, then ask, "What do I do now?" We sometimes even had to remind her to chew and swallow. Losing one's memories, I'm convinced, is life's cruelest disease.

Of course, forgetting is every bit as common as remembering, probably more so. On that same  holiday visit, our daughter casually recalled an event from her childhood involving me that I simply don't remember at all. I don't recall most of what happened yesterday, to be honest. 

And then there is the well-documented fact that the more often we recall a memory, the more we tend to change it, meaning that many of our fondest memories are mostly fiction, even as we insist they are true. This bothered me when I first learned about it, but now I see it as a blessing that we are capable of changing the past to suit the present. People say you can't change the past, but I beg to differ: we do it all time.

We take memory for granted because, like breathing, we can't imagine life any other way.


There are many, often conflicting, theories about why, what, and how we remember. Obviously, the urge toward survival causes us to retain memories of where to find food and water. Traumatic memories remind us, or teach us, to avoid things like tigers and geysers and poisonous plants. As Oscar Wilde wrote, "Experience is simply the name we give to mistakes." That also applies to our successes. Memory, with all its vagaries, stands at the center of what we call learning: we use 
information stored about the past to make decisions for the future

Of course, other animals possess memories and likewise use memory to learn, although, in our arrogance we tend to think of their's as shorter and less complex than ours. I mean, our dogs might return for a decade to the same shrub under which they once found a pizza crust, but what kind of memory does, say, a spider have? Increasingly, however, the evidence is showing us that the rest of our fellow travelers, animals and even plants, have amazingly complex cognition. 

For instance, in her book The Light-Eaters, journalist Zöe Schlanger writes about the evidence that plants also possess the ability to learn through memory:

"What garlic needs in order to sprout, is the memory of winter. That the spring eventually comes is not enough to make life emerge — a good long cold is crucial. This memory of winter is called “vernalization.” Apples and peach trees won’t flower or fruit without it . . . The remarkable thing about vernalization is that it means plants remember. The term undisputedly applies; plants use information stored about the past to make decisions for the future. This isn’t a singular example. Plants take note of the length of a day and the position of the sun. Cornish mallow . . . will turn its leaves hours before sunrise to face the horizon in exactly the direction it expects the sun to rise. The movement itself originates in the tissue at the base of its stalks, where the mallow will adjust the pressure of the water flowing through it to bend in the desired direction. Throughout the day, the amount and direction of sunlight the mallow experiences is encoded in the photoreceptors laid out across its leaves. It stores the information overnight, during which time it will use it to predict where and when the sun will rise the next day . . . Researchers have messed with the mallow by simulating a more “chaotic “sun,” switching the direction of its light source. The mallow learns the new location . . . Memory clearly has deep roots in biology. This makes sense; if the trajectory of all evolution is toward survival, then the ability to remember has a natural evolutionary advantage. It’s incredibly useful for staying alive."

As an educator, I see that nature, all of nature, learns what it needs to learn simply by living. There are those who argue that we need schooling because humans have made life far more complex than has nature, but c'mon! At best, we're on par with ants and bees as far as societal complexity goes. And when we consider plants and the 200 million year head start they have on humans, when we consider the planet they have in fact created, including animal life, including our lives, it's hard to not at least be open to the notion that what we see as species superiority is a failure of memory. We've retold the story of our existence as a work of fiction with ourselves as the main character, forgetting that we live in a universe that is far too complex for us ever to really understand it: even our own brains, the part of our body in which we imagine our memories are stored, is beyond our ability to comprehend. We might get closer and closer to the mechanics of how it works, but we simply don't have the perceptual ability to know how those mechanics result in our human experience. It's often referred to as "the hard problem of consciousness," made so by the paradox of having to use our minds to think about our minds.

The hubris of schooling, the notion that we adults can somehow one-up Mother Nature, has lead us to believe that our children, who are born, like plants, knowing exactly how to learn from life itself, must be tricked and tracked and trained in systems and schemas. Today, few of us don't remember childhood without schooling, although we recall very, very little of what we were actually meant to learn. Indeed, the main lessons that most of us learn from school is that life requires toeing the line, doing what we're told, and staying focused on what authority figures tell us to focus on. 

Life itself sends us butterflies, but school tells us not to chase them. Life sends us answers, but school tells us the only answers worth anything are the ones attached to the questions asked by adults. Life sends us billions of years of memories, of experience, of wisdom, but school attempts to replace that with a meager, dull, narrow range of trivia.

The great educator John Dewey wrote, "Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself." If only we could remember that living is enough.

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